I used to be a diver of the ocean

“Main marjiva sumund ka dubki mari ek,
Muuthi layaa prem kii jaa mein vastu anek”.

To simplify:

I used to be a diver of the ocean, who searched for pearls.
When I dived deep into the ocean of Parmarth, I came up with a fist full of love in the form of Sat Guru’s grace which provided me with immense spiritual wealth.
One has to die a living death. Hope and care for living has to be
given up then something can be achieved. In the ocean of worldly
bondage a boat can move, the self can cross it and become free
only when there is no desire left. If the weight of desire increases
the boat will sink.

The sound of the bell is considered as special. Whoever can listen
to it must concentrate on it. If the mind focuses on it, one is able
to reach the center. If the soul can latch on to ‘shabd’ then one
remembers it even when asleep. If it happens that one attains to the state of Videha, then, even on lying down to sleep, one hears
‘the sound’ and the mind focuses on it. One is if body-less:-

OM JAI GURUDEV

"Jagat bhog jo hain nishpaapaa, so sab dein turvavein aapa.Jog bhog sang sang karwavein, dou bairin ko jod milaveinudyam, pesha, kuchh na chhudvein, rakhi jagat mein bhaktidridaavein.Raag beech bairaag karaavein, Parmaarath anuraag badaavein".

To simplify:

This is the ultimate word about Grihasth Satsangis that Satguru conveys: Live in this world whilst remaining detached from it break away from the vain self. Satguru helps one to do so. He enables one to free oneself of what may seem as contradiction in this. He does not make one give up either business or profession. He enables one to achieve firmness towards devotion whilst being a part of this world. Within the melee of the world, he teaches asceticism subsequently the sadhak's devotion to parmarth increases day by day.